The problem with this phrase is it puts the burden on the person youre saying it to.

What do you say to someone who has terminal cancer. Dont ask what you can do to help or say Let me know if you need anything. In short dont be afraid to reach. Go at their pace and start by talking about things they feel comfortable with.

What to Say to a Cancer Patient. The best advice in this situation is to say how you feel. Then follow through and really be there.

But a card for an acquaintance with terminal cancer will be worded differently than one for a family member or friend. Generally Id say that avoiding the subject is not good. Learning how to listen involves concentrating on both verbal and non-verbal cues without judgement and interrupting she said.

They have to think of something they need then try and reach out to you and hope you were serious about the offer. Are you thinking about them. A simple I will keep thinking of you or I wish you much love and strength or Im sending you a big hug is a perfect way to end your note.

Lastly Alison and Brian urge you. Sometimes hello or I love you is enough. You are still the same amazing person youve always been.

A simple I love you or Im thinking of you if youre not sure what else to say is probably just the right touch stresses Ojala. Just say something. There are really only two things that need to be said to someone you love facing cancer of any stage.