Start by asking open questions like How.

What to say when someone has been diagnosed with terminal cancer '. One friend says she wanted to punch people in the face when they offered advice regarding her terminal diagnosis which happily did end in a miracle cure. I remember that theres no need to urge the person to beat it theres no reason to bring up the story of someone who died of cancer and theres even less purpose in silence. Cancer is an illness that not only creates complications for one person but changes the lives of many over the course of the diagnosis disease and treatment.

My estranged Dad we have only spoken twice in 30 years has informed me that he has terminal cancer. Its better to offer someone the opportunity to discuss things with you without pushing them to say more if they dont want to. Try not to say that everything will be fine or encourage them to be positive.

Try to stay away from other peoples cancer stories Brian recommends be respectful that everyones experience is personal Similarly avoid offering advice or opinions about your readers treatment choices prognosis or situation. Im only a phone call away. Just knowing that you were willing to try can be enough to brighten that persons day.

When the person with cancer is talking pay attention to what they are saying. They might want to talk about things you find hard to hear. Often the person will want to talk about their illness.

A young woman who was diagnosed with cancer was dismayed by the lack of greeting cards that expressed how she truly felt - but now shes on. Its imperative that you show that you are there to support and help in any way you can. If someone you know is going through this know that your support is valued.

This has been confirmed by other family members. Offer emotional support. In most cases a person with terminal cancer will understand your difficulty in expressing your condolences.