There are other ways to offer hope and messages of peace and positivity.

What do you say to a person who has a terminal illness. Ill pray for you. In times like these condolences and sympathy messages can be crucial. A person with a terminal diagnosis and those caring for them will naturally need a lot of support.

Its difficult to know what to say or do for a friend or family member who has a terminal illness. Even if its not the kind of relationship where you say love often this is one time of life when youll feel good that you did. Say thank you.

Many people will be unable to take everything in. Experts suggest that you dont say Its going to be OK Make it clear you are there for them try to create a semblance of normalcy ask how they are feeling today and be a good listener. I love you.

Why not just say Ill be there for you. Not understanding someones terminal diagnosis can be unintentionally offensive. When death occurs unexpectedly people often regret not having had a chance to do these things.

Although painful in so many ways a terminal illness offers you time to say I love you to share your appreciation and to make amends when necessary. Then write a sincere thank-you to your recipient for making your life a better one. Hearing that you have a terminal illness can be a frightening experience.

Some people are open to talking about difficult subjects particularly if theyre terminally ill which perhaps they wouldnt have talked about when they were well. But unspecific offers of help can often seem meaningless. Not only would it give the person some memories to enjoy but it is something visitors could look at with him or her as it is.