Perhaps your aggravation is a reflection of your own sensitivities worries or perfectionist tendencies.
Why is my husband annoying me so much lately. Your Husband Has A Hangup Perhaps your husband has always been quick to a be annoyed blaming you and others for his problems or misfortune. Does your husband have any of these risk factors. As they say the opposite of love isnt hate but indifference.
It can make you feel like your relationship is a burden instead of a positive thing in your life. After all it could be your own mindset which is causing you to get annoyed constantly by your boyfriend. One of the biggest reasons that a husband will ever continually disrespect his wife is because he himself has a low self confidence.
HOWEVER I need to apply this to my kids. I dont know why it is so much easier to let their actions really get to me and I can get mad at them and say they were the one that caused it. It could be something that on its surface isnt terrible but your guy could be over obsessing about something and as a result has gotten himself caught up in a whirlwind of worry.
Stop looking outside start looking inside. I am the one reacting thus I am responsible. Finding everything your partner does irritating can be stressful worrying and frustrating.
Your husband could be hiding his feelings from you. His way of dealing with that is to make his wife feel small and point out her every flaw instead. Or perhaps by seeking gratification in.
Perhaps you need to be more mindful of your limitations and not make it so much about him. Men with anger or self-image issues are particularly vulnerable often allowing themselves to be easily swept away by their irritable or argumentative mood. There can be other underlying reasons that make you think My husband doesnt like me For example maybe you have hurt his feelings in some way and it has never been resolved.