I was so very surprised and sad to hear about your daughters death.

What to say to someone who has lost a daughter. I hope you can find peace in the wonderful life she has lived. Open strong and say something from your heart. Samanthas daughter Ella image provided.

Relief from suffering is a blessing but doesnt make it easier for those who miss her so. When the time is right express what the deceased child meant to you. She was loved and respected by everyone who met her.

It was so powerful just being witnessed. Your daughter had the most incredible spirit and will be greatly missed by all who knew her. Maybe one of my ten points might make a difference to a bereaved parents life.

Here are some ideas to start you can with. Get comfortable with silence and just be physically present with the grieving parents. Accept their behaviour crying being quiet laughing.

A condolence letter is a great way to offer comfort and support to the family of the deceased. Share a favorite memory or connection with the child. God bless you and your entire family.

Also we need to show this person that we are willing to listen to their stories whenever they want to. - When you are in a conversation in which the survivors are talking about the dead person use the persons name. Daughters are your forever little princesses and apples of your eyes.