I am writing to let you know that we have forgiven you.

What to say to an estranged son on his birthday. I know that you think that I should be happy. Hope your special day is packed with endless fun laughter gifts balloons ice cream and cake. I travelled a long way to see you to hold you and to tell you that I love you and always will.

May everything about your big day taste just as sweet as your birthday cake. Were wishing you a happy birthday as we celebrate your life and how you have been a blessing to us. Your smiles and laughter are a balm to my heart.

I cant replace you with a new beau. It can be extremely painful to be estranged from your adult child but with some time and patience you can try to repair your relationship. Im writing this because we could never have this conversation in person.

I hope your birthday is filled with the same. If youre comfortable reaching out to your son or daughter you can say I know. Continue to reach out to him letting him know that you love him and that you want to mend whatever has broken.

To share a little of your joy in welcoming your son into the world. The road ahead of you holds endless possibilities. Talk about relational problems in terms of behavior not traits.

Happy birthday son 62. All I can say is thiswhatever brings you joy whatever brings you peace whatever you need to do in order to have hopeThat is why I will continue to send cards I will continue to send giftsno expectations no return no thanksbut that is what I do to get through this 7 year estrangement and will continue to do until the day I see our Lord and SaviorHe never gave up on me. Son you are a shining example of everything thats right in this world.