And then show up give a hug bring a flower and let that friend lead the way.

What do you say to someone diagnosed with stage 4 cancer. Offering prayers and good energy can be one of many ways you can show your concern for someone going through a vast life-changing experience. Everybody is different but someone who has just been diagnosed with cancer will probably be feeling very lonely. Ill ride the waves with you until the storm calms.

Dont forget that Stage IV patients are the same people except that they have a lot on their plate right now. If you have a friend or family member with cancer you want to help dont make the mistake of making a vague questionably-sincere offer Well call me when you need me they wont. Like Kim I have been living with a Stage 4 cancer for over two years now beating the odds but aware that I have so far been extremely lucky.

You are a rock star. The worst you can do is to say nothing. Whatever you need know that Im going to be right here for you.

Im sorry this has happened to you. There are really only two things that need to be said to someone you love facing cancer of any stage. Every day you are getting closer.

Thats what friends are for. I know you are stronger than anything. Listen if they want to talk dont offer cancer advice unless youve actually gone through whatever treatmentcomplication is being discussed.

Its imperative that you show that you are there to support and help in any way you can. But receiving specific and personalized condolences helps people feel. Here are some examples of what to write in a card if someone is going through cancer treatment.