Do not be afraid to talk with your friend.

What do i say to someone diagnosed with terminal cancer. Here are some things you can say to help show your care and support. Often the person will want to talk about their illness. Experts suggest that you dont say Its going to be OK Make it clear you are there for them try to create a semblance of normalcy ask how they are feeling today and be a good listener.

Try to stay away from other peoples cancer stories Brian recommends be respectful that everyones experience is personal Similarly avoid offering advice or opinions about your readers treatment choices prognosis or situation. Let the cancer patient know that you are there for them. Here are a few more conversation starters.

Convey that whatever the individual needs however long it takes youre going to be there to offer support. Dont know what to say. If you ever feel like talking Im here to listen.

Below are some examples of messages you can include in your card to a family member with terminal cancer. The best advice in this situation is to say how you feel. Its better to offer someone the opportunity to discuss things with you without pushing them to say more if they dont want to.

And then show up give a hug bring a. Do you care about them. Do not try to talk when one of you is busy or tired.

Make sure it is okay to give advice. One friend says she wanted to punch people in the face when they offered advice regarding her terminal diagnosis which happily did end in a miracle cure. Well go over what this means for someones life expectancy and guide you on what to do after you or a loved one.