Talking about death is an important issue for terminally-ill cancer patients and their families.

How to talk to terminally ill cancer patients. Coping with loss. Process your own feelings beforehand. Body language can be telling even when someone is no longer able to verbally communicate pain.

Approaching a Terminally Ill Patient in Denial Am Fam Physician. Take time to acknowledge and cope with your own emotions about the diagnosis before you see him or her. If the illness is terminal its important to talk about death and plan for the end of life.

Studies also show that patients prefer an open and honest conversation with their doctor about choices for end-of-life care early in the course of their disease and are more satisfied when they have this talk. I met the patient a 57-year-old farmer with end-stage cancer. If the patient has trouble swallowing pain pills ask about getting liquid pain medicines or a pain patch.

If the patient is having trouble swallowing do. Dont say things like let me know if you need anything advises Lyons. And dont talk about your friend with cancer who is running marathons or never missed a day of work.

Then write a sincere thank-you. You might be amazed at the stories they have to share. Cancer Council Online Community.

Show support without words. One of the most meaningful things you can say to someone at the end of their life is Thank you As youre writing the letter reflect back on your relationship with this person. Show those with cancer.