Encouraging Messages for a Cancer Patient Sending words of encouragement can change someones whole day.

What to say when visiting someone with terminal cancer. First of all most of us want to say we are sorry because indeed we are. Do not be afraid to make plans for the future. It is natural for someone with cancer to have many feelings such as fear anger or frustration.

Be sure to make it clear that saying no is perfectly okay. Visit more than once or visit in other ways. And while that bouquet of flowers should stay at home knowing how to keep your loved one safe is the greatest gift.

Hi its your niece Jane. Ask them to share memories with you about times with their family friends or the old neighborhood. The tips there are as valid for a terminally ill friend as for a grieving friend.

And its not necessary to say a lot. Check in with them to see how they are feeling and time your visit accordingly. Read What to say when you dont know what to say.

Do you care about them. Once prepared here are practical suggestions for a successful visit. Let me know if you need anything at all.

You can support the person with cancer by listening and talking with them. Here are a few more conversation starters. Even if you yourself have cancer chances are pretty good that you will not be alone in your circle of friends.