Everyone wishes the circumstances were otherwise.

What to say when someone has a terminal illness. Keep fighting Be respectful of their decision to stop fighting. First of all most of us want to say we are sorry because indeed we are. Unfortunately hospital rules wont let me visit you in Intensive Care.

And its not necessary to say a lot. I heard that youre going through chemotherapy. For the person with the disease this probably is the worst-case scenario.

Everything happens for a reason This unintentionally implies that the person must have done something wrong to. How are you feeling today This simple question gives your friend or loved one the opportunity to share as much or. Ill keep your family in my prayers.

A person with a terminal diagnosis and those caring for them will naturally need a lot of support. Do you need anything This question highlights your desire to. Often the person will want to talk about their illness.

Experts suggest that you dont say Its going to be OK Make it clear you are there for them try to create a semblance of normalcy ask how they are feeling today and be a good listener. You can encourage the person who is dying to share their feelings and you can share your own in return. When death occurs unexpectedly people often regret not having had a chance to do these things.

Cook some food clean the house send cards keep in touch often. Its better to offer someone the opportunity to discuss things with you without pushing them to say more if they dont want to. Im sorry to hear that.