A person with a terminal diagnosis and those caring for them will naturally need a lot of support.
What to say when someone has a terminal illness. Many people will be unable to take everything in. And its not necessary to say a lot. Everything happens for a reason This unintentionally implies that the person must have done something wrong to.
But unspecific offers of help can often seem meaningless. For someone with a short term illness Get well soon can be perfect. Keep fighting Be respectful of their decision to stop fighting.
But when youre communicating with someone in hospice be accepting of the fact that theyve moved past this point. Acknowledge what has been said. For someone with a serious chronic or life limiting illness sending your support at that time might be better.
Its better to offer someone the opportunity to discuss things with you without pushing them to say more if they dont want to. How are you feeling today This simple question gives your friend or loved one the opportunity to share as much or. Unfortunately hospital rules wont let me visit you in Intensive Care.
Although painful in so many ways a terminal illness offers you time to say I love you to share your appreciation and to make amends when necessary. I heard that youre going through chemotherapy. Its difficult to know what to say or do for a friend or family member who has a terminal illness.
Be present keep eye contact and provide your full attention. Avoid saying things that minimize what the patient is going through such as Dont worry Everything is going to be OK or Cheer up Nobody deserves to get cancer. What to Say When Someone is Terminally Ill.