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What to say to someone who's been diagnosed with terminal cancer. Often the person will want to talk about their illness. Before visiting giving advice and asking questions ask if it is welcome. Be sure to make it clear that saying no is perfectly okay.

Learning how to listen involves concentrating on both verbal and non-verbal cues without judgement and interrupting she said. Sometimes it can help but it may make things difficult. But refrain from asking for details of a persons suffering unless you are close to the person or engaged in a longer conversation or visit.

What to Say to a Cancer Patient. Although each person with cancer is different here are some general suggestions for showing support. This woman had not only been kind to me in the past but had been exceptionally kind to my children.

Helpful tips when supporting a friend. Showing empathy is helpful. Here are a few more conversation starters.

What to say and not say when someone tells you they have cancer Supporting someone with cancer begins with active listening says Cancer Councils head of cancer information and support services Meg Chiswell. Gestures can be very communicative if you are afraid you might cry or choke up. It had been less than a month.

Try to stay away from other peoples cancer stories Brian recommends be respectful that everyones experience is personal Similarly avoid offering advice or opinions about your readers treatment choices prognosis or situation. The worst you can do is to say nothing. I was just starting to tell people about the diagnosis.