Try to stay away from other peoples cancer stories Brian recommends be respectful that everyones experience is personal Similarly avoid offering advice or opinions about your readers treatment choices prognosis or situation.

What to say to someone dying of cancer in a card. In third grade he had an assignment to choose a cause to support. Sending good vibes and positive thoughts your way. A get well card is not the place to write treatment recommendations.

Cancer is a disease caused by the uncontrolled growth of abnormal cells in the body. Saying Im sorry for your loss can sometimes sound clinical and impersonal. If you are spiritual or religious you can say a prayer before your loved ones room and make it a point to be an active listener.

But a card for an acquaintance with terminal cancer will be worded differently than one for a family member or friend. You may offer other gestures of condolences such as a hug a pat on the back or a handshake. If the person asks for your opinion then that would be a great time to share your thoughts.

I received the news that your cancer has advanced beyond the treatable stage and Im writing to tell you that I love you and that no matter where you are in the universe you are now and always will be in my thoughts memories and in my heart. Im so proud of you. Back when I could still curl up in his hospital bed with him.

If you are open and honest with the person you love a simple text message or short email may remind them that they are in your thoughts. People who are dying of cancer appreciate it when their loved ones listen to them. I am thinking of you You mean so much to those around you I am so thankful that I know such a beautiful being.

A few weeks earlier on another Monday afternoon I was lying in bed with my son. Experts suggest that you dont say Its going to be OK Make it clear you are there for them try to create a semblance of normalcy ask how they are feeling today and be a good listener. Your best bet is to pay close attention.