This is totally normal.

What to say if someone has terminal cancer. Here are some examples of what to write in card if someone you care about has just been diagnosed with cancer. Supportive Words to Say to Someone with a Family Member Diagnosed with Cancer When you reach out to someone to express sympathy your message will be dictated by your relationship with them. He seems to want some contact with me.

I have enormously appreciated such messages. Im here for you Show up for your loved one and remain by their side as they go through this process. I dont wish what hes going through on anyone and have sympathy.

For example you might. They might want to talk about things you find hard to hear. Generally Id say that avoiding the subject is not good.

Please let me know how I can help. Listen to what the person has to say without judgment and make sure the individual knows. How are you doing If you would like to talk about it Im here.

Do you care about them. Im sorry to hear that you are going through this. My estranged Dad we have only spoken twice in 30 years has informed me that he has terminal cancer.

Remember who this person is aside from having cancer. Notice cues from the person and respond to these. This has been confirmed by other family members.