Experts suggest that you dont say Its going to be OK Make it clear you are there for them try to create a semblance of normalcy ask how they are feeling today and be a good listener.

What should you not say to someone with terminal illness. Cook some food clean the house send cards keep in touch often. As you trust God through the progression of your illness His light will shine through you. Allow them to hold on to comforting thoughts and fantasies.

If you are sincere in your feelings and being yourself as long as youre not a narcissist or sociopath chances are you will say something that will be deeply appreciated. I miss you Those of us with chronic illness will avoid. What to say to someone who is terminally ill.

Dont say things like let me know if you need anything advises Lyons. Some people may not be keen on hearing definites about the unknown such as expecting their family member to recover or even trying to offer any medical advice. How are you feeling today This simple question gives your friend or loved one the opportunity to share as.

People who interact with the terminally ill are often keenly aware of mortality. If the person has a terminal illness you may consider talking to family members and friends and putting together a scrapbook of the persons life. Cancer isnt as hard as it used to be Ive always wanted to shave my head You look like Natalie Portman in V for Vendetta We didnt think youd be up for it Youre so brave Have you tried If anyone can beat this you can.

Are you wondering if theres something you shouldnt say. Just want you to know I support you and Im glad youre making the most of this time with the people you love. Bowler is also the host of Everything Happens a new podcast.

How do you feel. Never say I know how you feel instead say how is this diagnosis making you feel. Tell me how you feel Its difficult for anyone to know what to say in a situation theyve never dealt with but sometimes its not about what you say but just that you sit and listen to us.