Heres what to say to a cancer survivor regardless of where they are in their journey.

What should you not say to a cancer patient. Make sure theres enough tea and fresh milk for when other people come round. Just let them know that you are available when and if they want to. An open-ended offer seems well-meaning but.

Among the many suggested donts are these. Youve been going through a really tough time. I know how you feel The truth is you never really do.

2 I know how you feel. Dont make light of a patients physical changes by saying things like At least you finally lost those extra pounds Dont talk about other patients with similar cancers even if they fared well no two cancers are alike. I also know Cancer Council has cancer nurses you could speak to.

Acknowledge Them What Theyre Going Through. There really is no perfect thing to say except maybe I love you Im here for you and Im bringing you chocolate right now The important thing is that youre willing to listen to learn to help and to not be well a complete boob about the whole thing. I can hear it has been really hard for you to share thank you for sharing.

You can never go wrong with Im not sure what to say here except Im glad we were able to get together or We can talk about whatever is on your mind. Dont say things like let me know if you need anything advises Lyons. What to Say to a Cancer Patient Well get through this together.

If someone you know is going through this know that your support is valued. Dont say. Everything is going to be fine The truth is you dont know that everything is going to be fine and this comment can sound dismissive says Kelly.