There is nothing you can say that will ever lessen my grief or fix the fact that I am going to die and all that this encompasses.

What not to say to someone with terminal illness. Dont expect a reply. Experts suggest that you dont say Its going to be OK Make it clear you are there for them try to create a semblance of normalcy ask how they are feeling today and be a good listener. Theres nothing I wouldnt do for you.

For someone with a serious chronic or life limiting illness sending your support at that time might be better. Theyre tired of pain tired of suffering tired of fighting says Tracy. Not understanding someones terminal diagnosis can be unintentionally offensive.

The one thing the press friends and family should stop doing is talking about patients having the strength of character to fight the disease. Its difficult to know what to say or do for a friend or family member who has a terminal illness. Im going to keep bugging you and I better not stop hearing from you either I love you you know that right.

Most people knew that Kevin and I are not spiritual so we didnt get a lot of that but we knew they meant well. This means I am terminal and that likely every time I see someone I havent seen for a week or more I look worse to them. You let me know.

There are no perfect words in times like these but by being there for your friend or loved one and making an effort to talk with them your good intentions will shine through. Hello their name I just heard that you are not doing too well and are in the hospital. A person with a terminal diagnosis and those caring for them will naturally need a lot of support.

And the big dont. Terminal illness cannot be fixed. You want the ill person to get better and you have an idea that might help.