What to say and not say when someone tells you they have cancer.

What not to say to someone with a terminal illness. It can be especially difficult to know what to say to someone who is terminally ill. We should stop using the word dying. Thank you for telling me about your illness.

Additionally if you want to send a message with religious tones make sure it matches the recipients beliefs too. During these difficult times even just saying a few words lending a. When death occurs unexpectedly people often regret not having had a chance to do these things.

And the big dont. This is so hard. Its hard to know what to say and not to say to someone with a terminal illness.

Experts suggest that you dont say Its going to be OK Make it clear you are there for them try to create a semblance of normalcy ask how they are feeling today and be a good listener. But the afflicted person will ask you for your advice if they want it. For example saying everything happens for a reason to someone.

Its difficult to know what to say or do for a friend or family member who has a terminal illness. But in fact its important to remember that whilst the persons time might be limited they are still very much alive. Ill pray for you.

Why not just say Ill be there for you. Dont tell the person everything will be okay or that this is the plan. What NOT to Say.