A need to sleep much of the time often spending most of the day in bed or resting.

What do you tell someone who has terminal cancer. Talking with someone who has cancer. My BFF has been fighting cancer for two years I mail a card each week with uplifting sentiments. Be present keep eye contact and provide your full attention.

Just tell me what you need. When someone elses diagnosis makes you feel this bad its almost impossible to imagine how the person who has received the diagnosis must feel. Speak in a calm quiet voice and avoid sudden noises or movements to reduce the chances of startling the patient.

Its difficult to know what to say or do for a friend or family member who has a terminal illness. Dont make light of judge or try to change the way the person feels or acts. Offer specific practical support such as cooking meals or transport to an appointment.

Research has shown that if a person who has advanced cancer discusses their options for care with a doctor early on that persons level of stress decreases and their ability to cope with illness increases. You can also send a gift of a cozy blanket or slippers to provide some comfort as they continue their fight. I have enormously appreciated such messages.

Experts suggest that you dont say Its going to be OK Make it clear you are there for them try to create a semblance of normalcy ask how they are feeling today and be a good listener. Communication about end-of-life care and decision-making during the final months of a persons life are very important. Supportive Words to Say to Someone with a Family Member Diagnosed with Cancer.

If you receive the news that you or a loved one has terminal cancer youll likely go through a range of emotions often within a short period. Trouble Swallowing Patients may have trouble swallowing food and fluids at the end of life. Here are a few suggestions for things you could say and things you should avoid saying when someone you know has a sick family member.