Remember who this person is aside from having cancer.

What do you say when someone tells you they have terminal cancer. Im here for you. If you receive the news that you or a loved one has terminal cancer youll likely go through a range of emotions often within a short period. Here are a few more conversation starters.

Are you sorry that they are going through this. If you feel like talking Im here to listen. But that only makes them feel worse.

Many people in a situation like yours would have that reaction. Say something supportive. There are really only two things that need to be said to someone you love facing cancer of any stage.

People think when someone they know gets cancer theyve got to make themselves available for a big heart-to-heart says Taylor. If you are open and honest with the person you love a simple text message or short email may remind them that they are in your thoughts. Dont know what to say.

Let me know what you need Saying that and meaning it may be the most incredibly important act of kindness youll ever do for your loved one. Lastly Alison and Brian urge you. The best advice in this situation is to say how you feel.

In most cases a person with terminal cancer will understand your difficulty in expressing your condolences. And then show up give a hug bring a. Many people ignore cancer patients and caregivers when theyre diagnosed because they dont know what to say.