Sometimes hello or I love you is enough.

What do you say to someone who has just been diagnosed with cancer. If you know someone whos been diagnosed with breast cancer dont worry too much about saying the exact perfect thing. Talking about a breast cancer diagnosis isnt fun. Even if you yourself have cancer chances are pretty good that you will not be alone in your circle of friends.

As the champions of letter-writing in the cancer community they know firsthand just how valuable a thoughtful note can be. They might want to talk about things you find hard to hear. But remember that help is available.

Making changes to your lifestyle after a cancer diagnosis some people want to make changes to their lifestyle. There really is no perfect thing to say except maybe I love you Im here for you and Im bringing you chocolate right now. Offer emotional support.

When a person first gets a cancer diagnosis theyre often so overwhelmed they have no idea how to ask for help or what to ask for -- but they sure need it. A young woman who was diagnosed with cancer was dismayed by the lack of greeting cards that expressed how she truly felt - but now shes on. Here are some things to consider before talking to a friend who has cancer.

Think positive thoughts may sound like good advice but it can be dismissive of your friends feelings. Try not to say that everything will be fine or encourage them to be positive. The best medicine is often listening to someone express their thoughts feelings and emotions.

Uncertainty not knowing what the future holds can be one of the hardest things to deal with when you are diagnosed with cancer. Honesty is the best policy. I can hear it has been really hard for you to share thank you for sharing.