Just say something.

What do you say to someone who found out they have breast cancer. You may think that if a friend is telling you they have breast cancer that they want to talk about the diagnosis. To help them see the bigger picture as they go through the everydayevery-moment struggle that is. Remember who this person is aside from having cancer.

Here are a few more conversation starters. You can just say I have friend who went through cancer a few years ago if you like I can put you in touch You can also offer sympathetic statements of support like I cant imagine how hard this is on you or if you need me I am here for you. What to say and not say when someone tells you they have cancer Supporting someone with cancer begins with active listening says Cancer Councils head of cancer information and support services Meg Chiswell.

Are you sorry that they are going through this. Although all of the above are true saying Dont worry to a woman just diagnosed with breast cancer is like telling someone whose home has just been flattened in a. Add the words with cancer to the way you think of him or her.

The fact is that anyone whos been given the diagnosis of cancer is living in her or his own unique universe. If someone else asks you about it you can say something like Its not up to me to share this but Im sure ____ will appreciate your concern. Let the individual scream shout punch the wall shake a fist to the sky or whatever else will help.

Keep reading to find out more. Comment on their strength. I wish you didnt have to endure them but you have persevered and you deserve to celebrate your success.

Many people ignore cancer patients and caregivers when theyre diagnosed because they dont know what to say. Learning how to listen involves concentrating on both verbal and non-verbal cues without judgement and interrupting she said. Lastly Alison and Brian urge you.