Let the cancer patient know that you are there for them.

What do you say to someone just diagnosed with terminal cancer. He seems to want some contact with me. Even an emoticon that might show how choked up you are can be fine. My estranged Dad we have only spoken twice in 30 years has informed me that he has terminal cancer.

What to Say to a Cancer Patient. Offer specific practical support such as cooking meals or transport to an appointment. Write down your feelings.

Notice cues from the person and respond to these. Are you sorry that they are going through this. If you are sincere in your feelings and being yourself as long as youre not a narcissist or sociopath chances are you will say something that will be deeply appreciated.

Avoid words like never and always. I dont wish what hes going through on anyone and have sympathy. If its a coworker or acquaintance youre reaching out to its okay to.

And then show up give a hug bring a flower and let that friend lead the way. The best advice in this situation is to say how you feel. There are really only two things that need to be said to someone you love facing cancer of any stage.

Be sure to think about your unique dynamic and let. Comforting Words for Someone With Cancer Cancer patients are facing a tough disease but their fight doesnt have to be a lonely one. Watch the CancerNet video.