I would also point out some of her possessions to say we brought her stuff It would calm her for a bit.

What do you say to someone in a nursing home. Maybe its a regular nursing home. They may be expressing sadness at their physical or living situation or grief at losing loved ones but they dont want you to Fix it or make them happy about it. Establish healthy boundaries by steering conversations away from attempts to guilt-trip you.

I want you to be able to focus on what matters. Make eye contact give a warm hug or handclasp sit down and talk at. Do whatever you need to do to get better Even though your contact time is likely to be limited during rehab let them know your shoulder is available whenever needed.

Visit often advocate for them and do small things to brighten their day and make their life easier but then move forward with your own life. When you are in contact let you loved one know you. Tell me what you need and Ill bring it to you.

The most important thing I think is to keep a good relationship with the person that youre trying to help _____ What to Do. I dont mind at all. Acknowledge the fact that nursing home care is a necessary reality for millions of people including your parent.

Be present and willing to listen Ask How can I help. Just checking in and wanted to say I. Friends and the nursing home resident.

Im running to the store. You could bring some lightly scented lotion and give them a gentle hand massage or bring some tools and give them a manicure. They may wish to communicate with you when you visit your loved one.