Generally Id say that avoiding the subject is not good.

What do you say to someone diagnosed with a terminal illness. Be present keep eye contact and provide your full attention. I want to help. If you are not a decision-maker for someone who is ill do not act like one.

Im thinking of you. Whatever you choose to write speak from the heart. Its difficult to know what to say or do for a friend or family member who has a terminal illness.

Not only would it give the person some memories to enjoy but it is something visitors could look at with him or. Dont say things like let me know if you need anything advises Lyons. Take your cues from the person with cancer.

You are still the same amazing person youve always been. In short dont be afraid to reach out even with just the simplest expression of regret. Although painful in so many ways a terminal illness offers you time to say I love you to share your appreciation and to make amends when necessary.

Notice cues from the person and respond to these. Then write a sincere thank-you to your recipient for making your life a better one. Be Mindful of Whether They Want Others to Know.

Here are some examples of what to write in card if someone you care about has just been diagnosed with cancer. Im here for you. Show support without words.