Send a card to let them know you are thinking about them.

What do you say to a friend who has terminal cancer. I am here for you. Here are some things you can say to help show your care and support. If you ever feel like talking Im here to listen.

I guess death brings the idea of their own mortality uncomfortably close Maxey who now lives in Nicaragua says her current community is a lifeline because they follow through. Keep the tone the same as the rest of the letter writes Alison. Donate blood in their honor.

Im sorry this has happened to you. Please let me know if I can do anything for you You might be surprised to see this on the list. They have to think of something they need then try and reach out to you and hope you were serious about the offer.

Lastly Alison and Brian urge you. Dont ask what you can do to help or say Let me know if you need anything. Go to MD Anderson.

Be present keep eye contact and provide your full attention. Well get through this together. They can give you a good idea of how the person is doing and can help you if youre not sure what to talk about.

Even if you live six states away you can provide tremendous help by checking in on your friend via text phone or email. Instead offer strength humor and practical help. Acknowledge what has been said.