Youre such a valuable member of our team.

What do you say to a friend who has breast cancer. Be present keep eye contact and provide your full attention. I wont be shocked offended or hold it against you. Are you thinking about them.

Whether you need a shoulder to cry on a rock to support you or someone to listen to you yell I am here. They live in another state so we are not physically nearby. It is better to say I dont know what to say than to stop calling or visiting out of fear.

Do not be afraid to talk with your friend. Here are a few more conversation starters. Im sorry this has happened to you.

Dont turn away. Youve always stood up to a challenge and thats what made you strong enough to beat cancer for this long. Be available to listen.

My neighbour has breast cancer maybe you know her. Say anything you like to me. Cancer sucks at any age.

Thats what friends are for. Many cancer patients just want to regain a sense of normalcy in their lives. If you are open and honest with the person you love a simple text message or short email may remind them that they are in your thoughts.