Now Brian who is happily cancer free and Alison run From Me to You together.
What do you say to a friend who has breast cancer. Be available to listen. Youve always stood up to a challenge and thats what made you strong enough to beat cancer for this long. Cancer sucks at any age.
The worst you can do is to say nothing. And then show up give a hug bring a flower and let that friend. Ask permission to raise sensitive topics.
Simply taking the time to check in with them and ask how they are getting on can be rewarding for the both of you. The best advice in this situation is to say how you feel. It is better to say I dont know what to say than to stop calling or visiting out of fear.
Here are some things you can say to help show your care and support. When someone has to undergo breast cancer treatment 11 Martha sweetheart I love that youre keeping a straight face for the kids and me. Whether you need a shoulder to cry on a rock to support you or someone to listen to you yell I am here.
Whatever support you need I am here for you. Its important to remember your friend needs your support and what that means will vary from person to. Battling cancer is one of the hardest things youve ever done.
Im here for you my friend. Acknowledge what has been said. Please dont be scared.