Im here for you.

What do you say to a dying person with cancer. Listen to what the person has to say without judgment and make sure the individual knows that youll always be there no matter what. They have to think of something they need then try and reach out to you and hope you were serious about the offer. Dont tell someone theyll beat it when its scientifically impossible.

Youre on my mind and in my heart. While conversing with someone whos dying you might detect that the person is worried about passing on unfulfilled with an uncompleted project or unresolved conflict. You will not feel pain.

Let the individual scream shout punch the wall shake a fist to the sky or whatever else will help. When I found out my dad was terminally ill many people believed he would beat it despite his cancer being inoperable stage 4 and incurable. If you are spiritual or religious you can say a prayer before your loved ones room and make it a point to be an active listener.

Then the pain eases. The best advice in this situation is to say how you feel. Are you thinking about them.

They usually want to feel and know that they matter and that they are being heard. The problem with this phrase is it puts the burden on the person youre saying it to. Help him or her see that they made a difference in the world amongst their friends and family.

Cancer Death and Finding the Words to Say Goodbye. A simple I will keep thinking of you or I wish you much love and strength or Im sending you a big hug is a perfect way to end your note. You can keep praying for a miracle but the person whos dying needs you to affirm that its okay to stop fighting and to focus on peace and comfort instead Examples I know this wasnt an easy decision to make.