He cheated several times.

I've cheated multiple times. I mean you had an abortion so he wouldnt find out but he did. He gave you a second chance and you blew it. I only started talking to her a few months ago but we instantly clicked.

You cheated 3 times on him. Youve cheated on him multiple times and feel no remorse or self-control to stop it. In the first weeks even months after the discovery of unfaithfulness a lot of powerful emotions will take place.

2 trying to get at heshe for cheating first. Whats worse is that you might end up forgiving them because you love them so much only to have them cheat on you again. You dont do this to someone you say you love.

Its about actually dealing with the problem. I wish you well and I hope you have the support of your friends and your family. It is one of the worst situations an individual may experience in life.

Learning how to forgive someone who cheated on you multiple times has one answer. Whether youve dealt with many indiscretions from one person or wound up with a series of individuals prone to stepping outside the relationship boundaries being cheated on hurts and it can affect your sense of self. Knowing that you cannot cause another person to cheat must also be understood.

There are many steps to take when forgiving a cheater but dealing with a serial cheater is a lot different than dealing with someone who got drunk and messed up for the first and last time. Deal with the root of the problem so it doesnt happen again. If this man has cheated on you 5 times it says more about him than it does about you and Im afraid you must consider moving on.