Whatever you choose to write speak from the heart.

How to greet someone with terminal cancer. Instead of saying I know how you feel try saying I care about you and want to help Dont suggest alternative forms of treatment a healthier lifestyle etc. But unspecific offers of help can often seem meaningless. Always approach the person slowly and quietly so as not to startle them.

First of all most of us want to say we are sorry because indeed we are. Let your friend know it is okay if he or she does not reply. The most important thing is to offer a comforting presence.

Cook some food clean the house send cards keep in touch often. You should still offer warmth encouragement and support no matter how much time they may have left. One important way to provide support is to share some silence without needing to drown it out with chatter.

Everyone wishes the circumstances were otherwise. Keep eye contact listen attentively and avoid distractions when talking. Remember you can communicate with someone in many different ways depending on how he or she prefers to communicate.

Taking the time to write and mail a note shows you care. However the tone and intent of your message shouldnt change. A person with a terminal diagnosis and those caring for them will naturally need a lot of support.

In the age of email and text messages a handwritten note or card is an especially thoughtful gesture. Refrain from physical assessments. Its your choice on how you want to impact their time here so make it enjoyable.