Let her know all of your feelings about the situation.

How to deal with an ex daughter in law. The geographical distance between the two of you. Try to be open to talking without getting defensive. State the problem and then request your preferred solution.

Your disappointment your hurt feelings from the exchange a few months ago everything. Here are some tips on maintaining healthy relations with your ex-in-laws. Dont take anything she says personallyits less about you and more about her.

Your relationship with your daughter-in-law will depend on a multitude of factors such as. When your daughter-in-law makes selfish or unreasonable demands pushing for an immediate answer may be her way to pressure you into an agreement that you dont want to make. In some cases parents will videotape every exchange regarding the children for visitation.

Either way she will have learned her lesson and will think twice before making a comment like that again. She has control issues. Dont just unload a litany of your daughter-in-laws hateful traits.

Your willingness to open yourself up and to trust her and vice versa. If it were me I would try writing a letter to your daughter-in-law. Here are some strategies you can use.

Then after you are done dont send it. Just because she who decides to go no contact in the first place for no reason decides to break it does not mean that you have to breakfast it. You were both named joint conservators of your daughter in your divorce and your possession schedule allows you to alternate one week on one week off with your daughter.