Add a Dose of Humor A dear friend found humor to be a mainstay of her last days with cancer.
How to deal with a friend with terminal cancer. Your loved one still deserves good. When dealing with advanced cancer people have different goals for. So there are different ways to give care.
This can be done over the phone if you are unable to be there in person. Even if it feels as if youre not doing anything your presence sends an important message. When youre the family member or friend of someone who receives a terminal diagnosis life as you know it can change overnight.
Talk watch movies read or just be with him or her. If they are nervous about check-ups or appointments offer to go with them for support. Alternative treatments can also be beneficial for those with terminal cancer.
This is why I sought out a support group for families and friends of loved ones. Offer to do some gentle exercise with them like going for a walk. My husband who has been diagnosed with stage 4 prostate cancer has become angry and bitter to the point that he seems to be taking it out on me.
Dont ask if theres anything you can do. Help them feel normal instead of secluded. There isnt one way that works best.
We asked people who have been through it themselvessometimes on. Cancer patients and caregivers are still people and they want to see you talk to you and laugh with you. Ask questions to show you care but let your friend or loved one lead the conversation.