Likewise two of my best friends have just got engaged.

How to deal with a friend with terminal cancer. However if your relationship with the terminal family member has been strained or alienated you may also find yourself feeling guilty resentful or angry. Here she shares what shes learnt about friendship. Help them feel normal instead of secluded.

Information about how to deal with tough situations will help. This is why I sought out a support group for families and friends of loved ones. You should just value your friend while she is with you and ignore the cancer as much as possible.

If they are nervous about check-ups or appointments offer to go with them for support. Try to hear and understand how they feel. Being active might help them feel better.

Be a friend. So why do it because she has cancer. Initially when my dad was diagnosed with pancreatic cancer his friends came around and visited.

She found that laughter not only helped her cope with each day but decreased her pain significantly as well. Simply being there for the patient to lean on is helpful. Even if it feels as if youre not doing anything your presence sends an important message.

Offer to help with things like gardening shopping cooking or housework. Alternative treatments can also be beneficial for those with terminal cancer. Some ways caregivers can provide comfort to a person with these worries are listed below.