You can call Cancer Council 13 11 20 to find out what support is available.

How do you support someone with cancer emotionally. You want to help. Make time for each other. Changes that occur before death.

Can I get you anything at the grocery store or pick up your prescriptions. Sometimes however its easier for a dying person to share fears with a spiritual counselor. How to Support Someone With Cancer From Afar.

Dont Blame Yourself. Make short regular visits rather than long infrequent ones. Some family and friends find that information about the physical process of dying helps them prepare.

People have found that when they express strong feelings like anger or sadness theyre more able. Look for the Positive. Oftentimes the best thing you can do for your friend or family member with cancer is to be a good listener.

Sometimes this means looking for the good even in a bad time or trying to be hopeful instead of. Ask questions to show you care but let your friend or loved one lead the conversation. You fear that displaying your emotion will end up hurting them rather than helping.

Dont ask if theres anything you can do. If possible the persons spouse or a mutual friend may be able to give you the basics. You want to be there for your friend or family member but at the same time you are also hurting and feeling emotional.